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It is a characteristic of a personality that is relatively stable over time and in different situations and affects the person's thoughts, feelings and actions. One of us is the product of the interaction of these traits with each other and the interaction of their set with the situation ahead.

The similar patterns of people in the behavior of feelings and thoughts include personality traits that distinguish people from each other, which causes the prediction and explanation of individual behaviors in interactions. People's responses to stimuli in different ways make the main element of human personality.

Specific responses to stimuli combine with each other and create habits. Under the influence of culture and environment, it finds a wide diversity and the motivational way of people's actions in different situations depends on the internal and external states and roles. Emotional and mood changes under the influence of the situation cause the appearance of traits and determine the behavior. In relationships, some behaviors are more related to the environmental roles of people than to general personality factors. The role of each person in life situations affects his behavior. Self-presentation can change from one situation to another and from time to time.

Psychological theorists have provided a scientific and acceptable classification of personality traits that people use in their daily life interactions. Information and awareness about individual differences is important for the health of our family and society.

Knowing the importance of traits helps us predict the behavior of others and control life events. In cross-cultural research, it is a model for the comprehensive introduction of traits. Therefore, in various cultures and dialects, the personality characteristics of people are considered similar to these five factors. In the shadow of these personality patterns, it is possible to recognize people and the way of communication. The existence of diversity in the individual differences of humans includes a range of personality traits in five main factors.

Introversion is effective against extroversion in the quantity and depth of interpersonal relationships.

Components

Introversion, talkative, quiet, sociable, aloof, warm-hearted, passive, self-expressive, self-contained, energetic and Adventurous, non-adventurous, active and excitable, positive and penetrating emotions, timid and weak, unable to express emotions

Compatibility against belligerence is the quality of personal relationships in a spectrum from compassion to conflict.

Components

Belligerence, adaptability, hot-tempered, one-sided, kind and stingy companion, forgiving, cunning, untrustworthy, trustworthy, proud, introspective, humble and humble, duty-oriented

Against irresponsibility, the degree of motivation is organization and persistence in purposeful behavior.

Components

Irresponsibility, conscientiousness, incompetence, efficient and worthy, lazy, effortful, unrestrained, task-oriented, hasty and careless, self-restrained, proud and introspective, humble and humble

Emotional stability is the tendency to experience negative emotions.

Components

Neuroticism, emotional stability, anxious, calmness, impulsiveness, self-restraint, vulnerable, resistant, modesty, self-respect, dissatisfied, satisfied

Experientiality is the veiling of the range and depth of intellectual and emotional experiences. These patterns are placed and patterns play a role in shaping communication styles. Extroversion and adaptability patterns play a more effective role in constructive communication styles with emotional regulation, along with the five-factor model of personality Cognitive and psychological abilities, habits, attitudes, knowledge, views, and self-evaluations have an impact on how a person behaves in a given situation In addition to these, he does not consider the role of biological causality, including genes, hormones, and brain structures, in the personality of people and their communication style. can be ignored, and after that, the events and objective experiences of people during their lives and the material and social environmental effects of relationships and They form interactive patterns. Four communication patterns can be distinguished based on the combination of some components.

1. Consistency: communicating honestly, clearly, and with mutual respect and mutual respect
2. Aggression: Communicating honestly, semi-transparently and vaguely without mutual respect, controlling the other person
3. Dominance: communicating insincerely and openly with the apparent respect of the other person's control
4. Dominance: Communicating dishonestly, not explicitly, with sometimes apparent and sometimes genuine respect for the person. Against self-following of the opposite person

A person with a decisive personality trait deals directly and respectfully in communicating and sending messages. He expresses himself in warm, social and social relationships, he has trust, simplicity and cooperation with others, and he creates an honest and respectful relationship by maintaining his dignity and calmness. Aggressive person's behavior is usually not clear and transparent, he usually talks in general terms in relationships and does not give objective and clear information when sending messages due to vagueness. These impulsive, expectant and stubborn people communicate with impetuousness and high tension. Dominant people have an inhumane and instrumental view of people with the aim of control and coercion. These people have constant fear and secrecy due to the disclosure of their intentions to deceive and exploit others. These social and penetrating people communicate with tension and embarrassment and lack self-confidence. Dominant people deal very indirectly and ambiguously, the communication of these people does not take place in an intimate atmosphere with mutual respect, and they worry about not disrespecting others regardless of preserving their dignity. Of course, not all people can be classified in one of these four behavioral patterns, each person shows all these four patterns in their behavior, but when a behavior becomes more visible and appears with frequency, the dominant pattern of communication of a person is determined. Considering the constructive and destructive communication components that appear in a spectrum in different situations, we can improve efficient and effective behaviors and increase the quality of our lives by learning the mechanism. Continued

Resources

• Parvin Lawrence Personality Theory and Research 1395
• Nima Nima Communication Styles and Skills 1400

Shiva Shaghaghi

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August 5, 1404

It is a character trait that is relatively stable over time and in different situations and affects the thoughts, feelings and actions of the individual. The behavior of each of us is the product of the interaction of these traits with each other and the interaction of their set with the situation ahead. In interactions, people's response to stimuli in different ways makes the main element of human personality.

Specific responses to stimuli are combined with each other and create habits. The personality traits of each person are widely varied under the influence of culture and environment, and the motivational mode of people's actions in different situations depends on internal and external states and roles. Emotional and mood changes under the influence of the situation cause the emergence of traits and determine behavior.

In relationships too. Some behaviors are more related to people's environmental roles than they are related to general personality factors. The role of each person in life situations affects his behavior.

Therefore, a person's moods and moods and the way he presents himself can change from one situation to another and from time to time.

Psychological theorists have presented a scientific and acceptable classification of personality traits that people use in daily life interactions, information and awareness about individual differences. It is important for the health of the family and society.

The importance of recognizing traits helps us to predict the behavior of others and control life events.

The five-factor structure of personality in cross-cultural research is a model for the comprehensive introduction of traits. Therefore, in various cultures and dialects, the personality characteristics of people are considered similar to these five factors. In the shadow of these personality patterns, it is possible to recognize people and the way of communication. The main factor includes.

Introversion against extroversion is effective in the quantity and depth of interpersonal relationships.

Components

Extroversion Introversion Outspoken Introverted Sociable Aloof Warm-hearted Passive Self-expression Self-restraint Energetic and adventurous Non-adventurous Activity and excitement Seeking positive and penetrating emotions Timid and weak unable to express emotions

Adaptability against hostility Quality of personal relationships in It is a spectrum from compassion to conflict.

Components

Militancy Adaptability Hot-tempered and one-sided kind and cooperative Stingy Forgiving Cunning Simplicity Unreliable Trustworthy Proud and introspective Humble and humble

Duty-oriented against irresponsibility is the degree of motivation of organization and persistence in purposeful behavior.

Components

Irresponsible, conscientious, incompetent, efficient, competent, lazy, hardworking, duty-oriented, hasty, careless, self-restrained, proud, introspective, humble, and humble

Emotional stability is the tendency to experience negative emotions. Dissatisfied self-respect

Experientiality is the masking of the range and depth of intellectual and emotional experiences.

Components

Masking of experienceness lacks imagination, unwise, wise, uninquisitive, opinionated, curious, traditionalist, conservative, free-spirited. Extroversion and adaptability patterns play a more effective role in constructive communication styles with emotional regulation, along with the five-factor model of personality Cognitive and psychological abilities, habits, attitudes, knowledge, views, and self-evaluations have an impact on how a person behaves in a given situation In addition to these, he does not consider the role of biological causality, including genes, hormones, and brain structures, in the personality of people and their communication style. can be ignored, and after that, the events and objective experiences of people during their lives and the material and social environmental effects of relationships and They form interactive patterns. Four communication patterns can be distinguished based on the combination of some components.

1. Consistency: communicating honestly, clearly, and with mutual respect and mutual respect
2. Aggression: Communicating honestly, semi-transparently and vaguely without mutual respect, controlling the other person
3. Dominance: communicating insincerely and openly with the apparent respect of the other person's control
4. Dominance: Communicating dishonestly, not explicitly, with sometimes apparent and sometimes genuine respect for the person. Against self-following of the opposite person

A person with a decisive personality trait deals directly and respectfully in communicating and sending messages. He expresses himself in warm, social and social relationships, he has trust, simplicity and cooperation with others, and he creates an honest and respectful relationship by maintaining his dignity and calmness. Aggressive person's behavior is usually not clear and transparent, he usually talks in general terms in relationships and does not give objective and clear information when sending messages due to vagueness. These impulsive, expectant and stubborn people communicate with impetuousness and high tension. Dominant people have an inhumane and instrumental view of people with the aim of control and coercion. These people have constant fear and secrecy due to the disclosure of their intentions to deceive and exploit others. These social and penetrating people communicate with tension and embarrassment and lack self-confidence. Dominant people deal very indirectly and ambiguously, the communication of these people does not take place in an intimate atmosphere with mutual respect, and they worry about not disrespecting others regardless of preserving their dignity. Of course, not all people can be classified in one of these four behavioral patterns, each person shows all these four patterns in their behavior, but when a behavior becomes more visible and appears with frequency, the dominant pattern of communication of a person is determined. Considering the constructive and destructive communication components that appear in a spectrum in different situations, we can improve efficient and effective behaviors and increase the quality of our lives by learning the mechanism. continues

Resources

• Parvin Lawrence, theory and research of personality 2015
• Qurbani Nima communication styles and skills 1400

Shiva Shaghaghi